Letter to Dave

Dear Dave,

I hope you enjoyed the video I recently emailed your way. The video
depicts a Case/IH tracked tractor backed up to a John Deere in an
old-fashioned game called tug of war. John Deere uses two tracks
while Case/IH places a track at each corner of the tractor which has
created the most important debate since “less filling, tastes great.”
I know as a long-time Case/IH man you it would interest you greatly.
I don’t know for sure if the tractors were evenly matched for
horsepower or not however it was a definitive win. I dare not say
which side won as I like to walk into either Titan Machinery or
Evergreen Implement and not have to concern myself as to whether I
will be asked to leave.

We recently held a benefit for Adam Tongen here in town, Dave. Adam
has cancer but is doing well after his most recent surgery. I was
amazed at the willingness of businesses and individuals to
consistently offer generosity when asked. Time, talent, auction
items, food, money came forth at a rate I could not have imagined. I
must say that the Eagle’s Club is basically a structure made to
benefit those who need help. They provided expertise in a space which
seems architecturally purposeful in its making to generate community
and benevolence. It’s good to live in small-town America where we
know each other enough to have empathy when a good person has a bad
run.

Farmers are optimistic about farming but pessimistic about the
weather, with good reason. Just when you learn to suspect Mother
Nature wants to drown you, she turns her back and turns off the tap.
I’ve been digging in fence posts and found water at about three feet
however topsoil moisture seems a little short right now. I guess it
just means we have nice planting weather and should finish that
business soon before we get the needed rain. Our dad’s FFA director
always told them to “paint your wagon and stay out of the beer
parlors” when it rains; I guess when it doesn’t we should take
advantage and plant crops or make hay.

Due to short rainfall, I haven’t put the cattle on our main pasture
yet. I think I will let the alfalfa and grass roots get as deep as
possible before I let the four-legged harvesters begin their work. A
sacrifice paddock is one in which you allow the cattle to overgraze a
little if need be and that is what we are doing today. I also have a
little hay left so am bale grazing with that precious commodity. I
will plant two new paddocks this spring and plan to use a mix of
alfalfa, orchard grass and probably fescue. The fescue is supposed to
stay real palatable at advanced age which makes it work for winter
grazing. The alfalfa fixes nitrogen to help the grass and the cattle
just love orchard grass; it tests pretty high for sugar so maybe that
is why they are so enamored of it.

Tell everyone hello in Carrington and please let’s organize so not
everyone prays for rain at the same time, or we will drown.

Your little bro

The Rapid Rebounder; in five acts

Act I Background

Adam Tongen is one of my friends-we also work together. He fits in
well with our group at work and has become an important part of the
office. I liked him right from the start; he is a fellow former radio
broadcaster and likes beer, which are two of my main talking points.
Lisa and I knew he was a good man and were very happy when he married
Ana (Hibbert)-who is also a good friend. They were wedded last October and are
expecting this August. They are what people mean when they try to
describe “a nice young couple.”

Act II A Diagnosis of Cancer

Adam Tongen got sick a few week’s prior to Christmas of 2011. Adam
was freshly married and expecting a child-it should have been the
best of times. Unfortunately, he was eventually diagnosed with
Germ-cell cancer and began his treatment with surgery, soon followed
by four separate five-day sessions of chemotherapy. Adam’s last
chemotherapy treatment was followed by staph infection. The infection
forced him back into the hospital for a stay which included four days
in which he was anesthetized to keep him unconscious while he
received intravenous antibiotics. This was followed by six weeks of
antibiotic infusion therapy which finally ended this week. He was at
the Mayo Hospital Friday to discuss the possibility of
another surgery after a blood test recently revealed bad news.
(note Adam must have another surgery May 11th, the day of his benefit)
Act III Cancer Sucks

I’ve have only watched cancer from the outside. It seems to me that
this disease is unique in that it carries such fear. So much legend
has been built around it that a cure is mostly medical but also
emotional. I catch myself editing out the word “cancer” when I talk
to Adam. Chemotherapy seems most similar to a war of attrition in
which you hope to wear the enemy down and bring him to the table and
eventual armistice. Surgery seems more aggressive with a goal of
cancer’s unconditional surrender. No matter what, I think there is a
horrible vulnerability that comes with the disease, no one is safe.

Act IV What we can do

Friends and family of Adam Tongen have planned a benefit in his
honor. May 11th from 5-9 pm, we will gather at the Eagles Club in Thief River Falls, Minnesota for a free-will pulled-pork meal, silent (and not so silent) auction, bake
sale, cash bar and sale of “the Rapid Rebounder” wrist bands. “The
Rapid Rebounder” is the nickname given Adam by his doctor because he
has typically rebounded strongly after numerous, invasive medical
treatments. Local businesses have responded to our requests of items
for the silent auction with great generosity so there will be a
fantastic selection of items on which to bid. We hope Adam will be
able to attend but if not we’ll just have to take a few pictures to
document this night held in his honor.

Act V Thank-you

So many have acted to our call to help Adam. Some have acted
anonymously and have given in ways I find quite touching. All we can
offer for all of your help is to tell you simply, deeply; thank-you.

For those who would like to donate to the Adam Tongen benefit, please mail your check to:

Pennington County Sheriff’s Office

Attn: Wendy Mattson

Po Box 484

Thief River Falls, Mn   56701

If you have any questions, please leave it in the form of a comment on this blog and I will get right back to you-GN.

Woofstock; in five acts

Act I The Contract

When man domesticated certain animals, he became part of a contract.
This contract states that by taming certain wild animals, man removed
their ability to care for themselves and therefore became their
caretaker. Previous generations defined themselves by their
responsibilities however today some see responsibility as a yoke and
not a crown. When you see a habitually stray cat or dog, you are
seeing the failure of a human owner and the results of a person who
cares not for responsibility. It is a broken contract.

Act II Safe Harbor

Animals lost to human indifference find safety at the Pennington
County Humane Society in Thief River Falls, Minnesota. Here pets get shelter, care, food and love-then hopefully new owners. It makes me happy to see dozens of people come
to adopt the pets who are victims of high-profile animal abuse as
reported in the media. These animals have such engaging stories
however you should know that the animals you’ve never read about in a
newspaper also have stories that await a happy ending-adoption.

Act III Woofstock

“Woofstock” comes to the Eagles Club in Thief River Falls March 19th. This special day
serves to benefit the animals of the Humane Society and features a
bake sale, free-will burger meal, silent auction, a raffle and more.
You can also purchase identification tags for your pet that day. The
Pennington County Humane Society has recently incurred unexpected
expenses because of a huge influx of dogs and “Woofstock” is a fun
way to show your support of this great organization.

Act IV My Part

I plan to attend “Woofstock.” I will be selling my book “Rural
Reflections” and signing it during the event. This book is a collection of
columns I’ve chosen from 2000-2006 which I felt were my best from
time of writing for the Grand Forks Herald. The price for each book will be ten dollars and ALL money will go to benefit animals. I have a couple of hundred books left so
if I sell all of them, then approximately $2000 dollars will go to
benefit pets. Now I have the books to sell, I just need people to buy
them. I have the product to sell to benefit pets, I just need
buyers-that’s where you come into the scene. It’s all on you, cowboy;
so plan to attend “Woofstock.” You may also email me at
grantnelson@gvtel.com and I will get a book into your hands ($2 postage) if you
cannot attend March 19th.

Act V A second beneficiary

Lisa and I recently saw a story on pet oxygen masks. These masks are
now used by fire departments across the United States in the rescue
of pets who are victims of structure fires. These masks have standard
hook-ups that seamlessly work with oxygen equipment already on board
the fire truck. The kit features one oxygen mask for cats, one for
small dogs and one for larges dogs and costs about $80 with shipping.
Part of sales of my book during “Woofstock” will go towards purchase
of these masks for local fire departments. The Humane society will
handle the money and disperse the funds. If you would like to see
more about rescue oxygen masks for pets please check out
www.petoxygenmask.blogspot.com then join me at Woofstock on March
19th.